July 7, 2022
3 min read

Hey guys, welcome welcome. How are we all doing. For a while, I’ve heard ladies and guys talk about some kind of chills they want to get into after the whole pandemic ish…

Some single ladies are already idealizing their first dates with fingers crossed that e no go pass this year. I may not be on this train but let me join my ladies in their prayer abeg ( ladies that pray together, achieve together). LOL…

Ok ok, what’s my ideal first date like ? Omo don’t get me wrong oooo I’ve being on my first date but I just want to yan…

You know we ladies, we’ve got different kinda preferences when it comes to chilling with our man. Some would like to go on dinner dates at a lovely restaurant, eat out, bar, you name it. Some would like to go to the movies. Some are okay with a stay at home kinda date with perfumed candles, slow jams and a lovely home cooked dinner.

Hmmmmm, mad ooo. It’s all good tho, I’m actually down for any if I were to be but I’m not. HAHAHA.

My ideal first date is something simple tho, to be honest, I’m okay with any nice activity my boo sets up ( not my fault I’m not the hopelessly romantic type ) As long as it’s fun and it brings that crazy smile to my face then I’m good. I even consider window shopping with my boo a date.

That aside, I would love to give you guys 5 lovely first, second, third date abi chillzz with babe (let’s call it that ) tips.

Let’s start our relationship on the right foot shall we:

Go hiking ( sounds boring but trust me it’s fun)
Go on a dinner date… with some delicious Wine shall we.
Go swimming.
Go to a concert.. most times this isn’t really considered as a date but it is trust me. It’s soo fun vibing with you boo at a concert.
Go to the movies…
Do a picnic at a beautiful location…

These are really lovely first date tips… obviously these aren’t the only one but these are my favourite and most recommended types that you should try…

Quick question: Can we consider Netflix and chill as a first date or is it just let me say some sort of agenda… see you guys at the comment section.

Thanks for reading, dont Forget to like and share.


Tonnie XX

Okay! Netflix and Chill is NOT a date, in my own opinion sha. I don’t consider it as one.

ikenna basil

Very interesting ideas dont worry I hve plans lol

Musa Jeremiah

It is a kinda date since movie is involved


Swimming as a first date? I wouldn’t o. For the longest time my first date scenario has always been one that involves a swing. I’m not sure I would ever have left any guy who pulled that!

Princess Onyeario

What ever works best honestly
Like I’m the movie kinda girl soo I consider that as a first date …
i practically can consider any of these dates as a first date I’m very flexible


I can too. But swimming seems more exposed for me when I barely know the person enough. But to each his own. lol

Princess Onyeario

True true
I get ur point ( like showing off your body to some guy you don’t know and stuff) I would say it’s too intense to some extent
But lots of people dig stuffs like that as their first dates

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